What it takes…

Just because it didn’t work out last time, doesn’t mean that the same thing is true this time.

If you are feeling that you’ve been where you are previously – look for the hallmarks of the pattern which is repeating.  When you are feeling upset or the impending doom of losing connection to a love relationship, it’s easy to keep on trying.  Be sure that you are not repeating the same pattern of trying that you have used before.  Keeping on trying without something fundamental shifting within you and the relationship inevitably leads to despair and exhaustion.

Doesn’t matter whether it is a parent child or a beloved partner relationship.

You MUST do what is needed to bring in a new awareness and basis for the relationship.  The issue is within the pattern being expressed.  You can bring this to the surface and de-pattern by de-patterning your communication so the language of your heart is at the surface level.  It’s in your and the other’s  heart that hardness, stuckness and disappointment can repair and dissolve.

Find it!  Sound good but don’t know how to do it?  Let me help you.  It will feel un-natural at first but that’s good! In this case un-natural signifies new :+)

Linda

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